Genital Herpes Symptoms and Treatment




Transmitted diseases in the world today. It is caused by the herpes simplex virus. This is the same family of viruses that causes cold sores, shingles, and chicken pox.
Genital herpes is caused by infection with the herpes simplex2 virus (HSV2). HSV1 is the virus that causes cold sores on the lips and nose area. The herpes virus, however, is not too particular about the mucous membrane it calls home and will happily live in either the mucous membranes of the mouth and lip area or the reproductive tract. Because of this, oral genital contact can spread either HSV1, HSV2. Viral transmission can occur from the mouth to the genitals or from the genitals to the mouth. The blister type lesions caused by either virus are virtually identical.
Genital Herpes Symptoms
Sometimes after the initial infection there may be fever and general malaise as could be seen with any acute viral infection but this is not always apparent in all cases. In fact the symptoms of a genital herpes infection may not be known to you until you see some blisters on or around your genital area.
This is called an outbreak and is characteristic of the way the herpes virus acts in the body. There will be periods when the virus is dormant and none of the characteristic symptoms of genital herpes are present. Then there will be these outbreak periods where blisters appear in the genital area and may even extend to the anal area.
The blisters will act like any normal cold sore on the lips. They come up with an initial tingling, then grow larger and spread and eventually burst leaving an ulceration that will slowly heal on its own.
In men these blisters occur on or around the penis. In women the blisters may actually be in the vagina as well as on the surrounding genital area.
Symptoms of genital herpes will come and go but the virus stays with you forever. The number of outbreaks will gradually become less and less and in some cases, some people do not see outbreaks at all.
Diagnosis
You may not know you have contracted genital herpes until the first breakout of the blisters. Symptoms of genital herpes are so mild in some people they think they just have a skin irritation. The best thing to do is to be checked by a doctor so that you can get diagnosed properly.
Doctors can usually make the diagnosis based on inspection of the genital area as the lesions are quite specific in appearance. In some instances the doctor may take a swab on the blister fluid to see if it contains the virus.
Genital Herpes Treatment
There is no cure for genital herpes, however, it can be controlled so that you can live a normal sexually active life. Anti-viral medications are often prescribed at the first outbreak to knock back the infection and may be used for prolonged periods if outbreaks are frequent.
Other treatments for the discomfort of an outbreak are common sense measures such as wearing loose comfortable clothing, using cold compresses or soothing creams and ointments on the blisters.
A strong and healthy immune system is needed to keep the virus suppressed and to reduce the frequency of outbreaks. Health denying habits such as smoking, drug use, or toxic relationships will drain the resources of your immune system so your best method of treatment is to maintain good health. This would include eating whole nourishing foods, getting plenty of exercise, and managing stress.
Complications
Generally the herpes simplex virus is not considered a dangerous infection to persons who have a fully functioning immune system. The virus will be suppressed and outbreaks will not be common as long as the immune system is functioning well.
However, if the immune system becomes burdened or compromised in any way then outbreaks will be more likely to occur. This may happen during times of physical or emotional stress. If the immune system is comprised by other more serious illnesses such as HIV or cancer then the herpes virus can become more dangerous.
If the virus is directly transmitted to other areas such as the eyes, or the brain, complications can be very serious. This direct transmission can happen in a number of ways but the most common is during the birth process. The infant can become infected with the virus from contact with the mother's vagina during birth.
If you suspect you may have contracted a genital herpes infection see your doctor as soon as possible. Never have sex during an outbreak and never have unprotected sex. This means using a condom (either male or female type) during every sexual encounter even during oral sex.
Additionally you should always inform your partner of your herpes status. This is always the right thing to do.
(Beverly OMalley )
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How to Know Why Your Woman Cannot Climax - And What to Do to Make Sure She Orgasms





Men of both young and old try very hard to make women reach climax during sex, but this isn't always easy. In fact, some men have even ended up in broken relationships because they weren't able to satisfy their girlfriends with their sexual performance.
Most of the time, there is no problem with the effort that such men put into it; it merely lies in a lack of knowledge on what they are supposed to do. Several tricks, however, do exist that you can follow in order to make your woman reach climax during sex every single time and you could even make her reach multiple orgasms, if you want.
In the world of sex, women long to have nice experiences and naturally also great orgasms. Ensuring that there is nothing for your girlfriend to complain about in that department would be one way to ensure that she stays in a relationship with you. First and foremost, however, you need to know what the main problem is and why you cannot seem to make her reach climax during sex. Keep reading to find out the reasons behind this phenomenon...
3 Reasons Why Your Woman Cannot Climax During Sex and What to Do About It
Reason Number One: You do not last long. In a nutshell, you have to last for a minimum of 15 minutes during sex since this happens to be the time span that most women need before reaching an orgasm. In order to make your own orgasm last longer, you would have to change the type of fraction your penis feels, so that other parts of it get stimulated instead. This will help you last longer.
Reason Number Two: You skimp on foreplay. Foreplay happens to play a vital role when it comes to the female orgasm. Women need to get turned on through foreplay since this tends to be far more effective to women compared to actual sexual penetration - in a lot of cases anyway. After you get a woman so far into it that she starts begging for you to have sex, you are sure to get her to reach an orgasm in record time.
Reason Number Three: Your penis is too small. Sadly, some men are simply endowed with small penises. A penis that is large and thick happens to have the power to cause more female stimulation and thus satisfy a woman more.
Although some women are tighter than others, it doesn't mean they require bigger shafts just to reach an orgasm, though. Even smaller penises can find a lot of alternatives to use to make women reach orgasms. You just need to find out what that is below.
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Mind Blowing Ways to Give Any Girl the Best Orgasms She Ever Had
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Reasons Why Virginity is Vital




There are a lot of advantages that come with being a virgin for both men and women. According to research, women who remain in a virgin state have higher chances of getting bigger salaries than non virgins. It proves how strong you are to resist sexual desires. Those who engage in sex before marriage have higher chances of divorce compared to those who abstain.
Peace of mind. People prefer to stay virgins so that they do not have to worry about unwanted pregnancies, sexually transmitted infections or heartbreaks simply because you will get attached to your sexual partner. Frankly, there is a very slim chance that he or she will be your life partner. Premarital sex in women increases their chances of getting cervical cancer.
What other people say about virgins also counts. According to the bible a virgin woman is considered a crown to her husband. If you are not a virgin, people tend to point fingers and discuss you including your former partners. It is believed by most women that being a virgin makes you some kind of a trophy for men. To prove that they are not just any women, they strive to keep their purity.
Virginity also earns you respect not only by your peer but everyone else who knows you. Being a virgin is proven to increase a person's self confidence and responsibility. It is not a surprise that most people can know whether a man or a woman is a virgin without having sex. Some say that virgins behave more mature for their age and are better mannered than non virgins but these are just opinions.
Some people opt for virginity for religious, health or even cultural purposes but they all have the same advantages. So, whether you are practicing primary or which ever level of virginity, hang in there because it is all for a good cause and you will never regret it. However, you also need to be careful with those who might want to take that away by force but apart from them, how you want to live your life is up to you.
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The Best Sex Positions For Powerful Female Orgasms Every Time





So you may be wondering what are the best sex positions for pleasing your woman? If you read any sex education book, you are likely to find many positions that are hailed as the best and these include the missionary position, doggy style, 69's etc.
However in my opinion, all these sex positions miss the boat because they forget the one thing that makes females orgasm even possible and that is clitoral stimulation.
The problem with all suggested sex positions is that they all seemingly depend on vaginal stimulation to cause a female to orgasm. However vaginal stimulation is the least efficient way to get a woman to orgasm.
In truth, there are two types of female orgasms.
There is clitoral orgasm, which occurs when the clit is stimulated. And then there is vaginal orgasm which occurs when the vagina is directly stimulated.
Most sex guides will focus on vaginal stimulation but very few will even talk about clitoral stimulation!
What some experts fail to realize is that both orgasms depends on the clitoris. So it only makes sense to master the art of clitoral stimulation.
And by reading this short article, you can become a very powerful lover and use the technique I am about to share with you on all sexual positions to make any woman orgasm.
So what is the technique that makes any sexual position better? It is screwing! Now I am not being vulgar, I am simply using the right term! You need to screw whiles penetrating a woman.
Here is how to perform this sex technique: Take any sex position and do not focus on only the penetration aspect of it. Rather when performing any sex act screw with your penis! As your penetrate your partner, screw with your penis clockwise. By screwing you are pressing and stimulating the clitoris which will potentially lead to an explosive female orgasm.
This action of screwing while penetrating during sex will turn average sex positions into masterful female orgasm producers.
So try it next time you are making love to your partner. Simply take any sexual position and add the screwing motion to it. You would have turned average sexual techniques to powerful orgasm producers.
Start with something simple like the missionary position. A simple position like the missionary allows you the skill and time to master this simple method of pleasing a woman.
That is all you need to do to turn all sex positions into powerful female orgasm generating tools.
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How to Talk Dirty With the Man in Your Life and Have the Most Intense Sex Ever!



What if there was something simple that would make sex hotter than ever? You want a free way to spice things up? Start talking dirty.
Admit it. You've thought about being that woman, the one who can say racy, provocative things to her lover without blushing or looking away. She's uninhibited, in touch with her own desires, and she's getting it way better than you are, largely because of her bold self-possession. So what's been holding you back? Fear.
Maybe you feel embarrassed or abnormal, but you shouldn't. There's nothing wrong with dirty talk between lovers. Once you experience the explosive results, you'll wonder why you didn't open your mouth sooner.
Don't know how to get started?
Rehearsal is the key to finally talking dirty to your man. Start with a role model. Break out the adult movies and watch the masters at work. These girls know what to say, when to say it and how to say it. Try saying some of their lines. Yes, you'll giggle the first time, but if you keep talking, the phrases won't sound so weird to you. Soon you'll sound like a natural.
It may feel strange to use the words of another woman in bed, but until you unleash that part of yourself that allows you to say your own sexy-nothings, you can borrow from experienced gals. Slowly begin slipping in your own material. For starters tell him how hot he looks. (Compliment that one piece of his anatomy he most wants you to enjoy.)
He wants to hear this stuff. Trust me, I know. Once I loosened up and tried it, my lover confessed he'd craved that all along. What are you waiting for? Be the woman you've always secretly wished you were and watch your sex life explode.
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Last Longer in Bed - Causes of Premature Ejaculation and Highly Effective Tips For Lasting Longer!

The biggest factor in a man's sexual confidence is being able to pleasure a woman in bed, which is why most men who suffer from premature ejaculation wonder how to last longer in bed.
Many men use to ejaculate prematurely because once they get too sexually stimulated they lose control. If this reminds you of your sex life don't worry, because there a lot of men who suffer from the same problem and more importantly; there are ways to treat premature ejaculation and learn to last longer in bed.
First we will discuss the mental causes of premature ejaculation.
There are a number of different causes of premature ejaculation and one of the largest is actually a psychological problem, not a physiological one. Problems such as depression and anxiety can impact sexual performance even if the man is physically healthy. Stress, past failures, or negative experiences with sex can all affect current sexual performance and hinder you from lasting longer in bed.
How short is too short?
There is no magic number for how long sex should last; basically, it depends on what you and your partner believe. Premature ejaculation is essentially when you ejaculate sooner than you wish to. For a good deal of men, this number is around 2 minutes or less. For others, it can be pretty bad; some men lose it during foreplay or at the initial penetration. In short; premature ejaculation occurs when your sex is too short to satisfy your partner.
Isn't losing control normal? Yes, but not all the time. Premature ejaculation exists only when you are not able to have sustained sex all the time. If you occasionally experience early ejaculations, then it is completely normal and you have nothing to worry about, but if it happens all the time you should seek treatment and learn to last longer in bed.
There are many unconventional treatments that can help you stop premature ejaculation. These treatments vary widely; here are two treatments that you should try if you want to last longer in bed, before you go to the doctor.
The first method is to increase the strength of the muscles in the pelvic area which is achieved by doing exercises that target those muscles. These muscles control the flow of semen, so increasing the strength of these muscles increases control over ejaculation, which can help you last longer in bed.
The second method is learning to be in control over the feelings before orgasm. If you are able to be sexually stimulated without reaching orgasm you can greatly increase the amount of time you last in sex. The point is to practice until you are able to get close to ejaculating but then allow the feeling to subside so you can continue on longer. Practice with this will help you gain more control, which will allow you to last longer in bed.
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Oral Sex - How to Make it Really Good

Today one of the most common types of foreplay that are available today is oral sex. This type of foreplay will make your whole sexual interference better. Today all over the internet and in the real world there are many ways to find a lot of information about how to practice that type of sex. However there are 2 main things that you must do and you will have success for sure:
* Be extremely gentle, because otherwise there is a really large chance that you will bring pain to your partner instead of pleasure.
* At the moment when you practice oral sex make sure that you will examine your partner behavior. This way you will be able to see what exactly turns him or her on.
You will certainly have foreplay beforehand. After that, you can start move to her inner thighs. As a matter of fact, it is on the most sensitive area of a woman. Before you really lick her, you kiss her inner thighs slowly and gently. Remember, you need to do that gently to arouse her. Do not hurry since it will only give her anxiety.
Then you slowly move to her vagina and lick the lips. Again, doing it slowly is the key. Do not open the lips at this moment, you are still on the way to arouse her. And as a consequently licking the lips gently will be good enough for now.
After licking the lips for at least a few minutes, you can try to start sucking on them. Without any surprise, you should never do it hard or too quickly. It may take you some time to keep sucking. You should never go further unless there are signs that you can. You will certainly go further if she urges you or you start hear her moaning.
Now you are going to stimulate the hook of the skin covering her clitoris. Clitoris is the little nub of flesh to the front of her vagina. If she has already been aroused and felt very excited, the clitoris will tend to be hard. In fact it is just like your penis, it will be hard if you are sexually aroused and excited. On the contrary, and it is just also like your penis, the clitoris will be small if she is not excited yet.
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French Kissing-Tips To Give Your Partner The Perfect Kiss




In a survey 90% of women said that they wanted more kissing and noted it is one of their favorite signs of affection, but how to you give the perfect French kiss?
Anyone can give a great French kiss and that’s what this article is all about.
Don’t think French kissing is just for teenagers its 0one of the most expressive acts you can do to show your love and desire for your partner.
Kissing can express a whole manner of emotions including:
Friendship, emotional connection or can be a sexual action, as in the French kiss.
Before we look at what goes into a great French kiss and how to give the perfect one lets review a few basic points.
What is a French kiss?
A French kiss is sexual by nature and is a kiss where the tongue is put inside your partner’s mouth and they do the same to you.
French kiss basics
To start tilt your head to one side and your partner will do the same, this of course allows tongues to enter the mouth and avoids noses clashing.
If you want your partner to want to give you a French kiss in the first place make sure you practice good oral hygiene and have regular dental check ups.
If you don’t do this, your partner may not want to kiss you in the first place!
A Personal expression
The mouth creates a smile and that is an expression of emotion and passion we communicate everyday with our smiles and words.
When we get to French kiss communication is raised to a different, highly personal level and this is why
French kissing is such a turn on for everyone.
Here are tips to help you enjoy the perfect French kiss.
1. Relax and enjoy
If you are nervous and are tense, you become stiff and this will ruin a kiss as this will translate to your partner. To enjoy a French kiss you must be relaxed.
When you're worried you won’t be able to concentrate correctly and all great French kissing involves concentrating simply on the kiss.
If you relax you can go with the moment and respond naturally to the person you are kissing which makes a natural connection and they will respond.
3. Variety
Vary your kissing so your partner does not know exactly what will come next so experiment with the speed and pressure of your kisses.
4. Coming up for air
You will need to come up for air now and again but use these moments to kiss lightly other areas such as one of the most erotic zones of all the neck.
5. Use your whole body
Use your hands on the back of your partner and on their buttocks and move your body.
There is nothing more of a turn off, than to kiss someone who is stiff and that’s why it is important to be relaxed as we stated earlier.
4. Let it flow
The best kisses have a natural flow between you and your partner.
They vary from gentle, to aggressive mouth and tongue contact, with pauses for breath.
When you French kiss someone and your both relaxed and concentrating on the moment the kiss will simply develop naturally.
What makes a perfect French kisser?
Its simple.
It’s a natural flow of emotion and desire between you and your partner they points to keep in mind
you must be relaxed to lose yourself in the moment, you need to respond to your partner and you need to add variety.
Last but not least, use your whole body to communicate not just your mouth.
If you do the above, you will enjoy the perfect French kiss.
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The smell of Infertile Women Draw Men’s Passion





Forget expensive perfume. The smell that comes naturally when a woman is going through fertility was more powerful in terms of male attention. We smell it, male sex hormones to fall for it.
“A man who smelled the shirt worn during the fertile women have testosterone levels are higher than the man who kissed her shirt was not the time of ovulation,” said Saul L Miller and Jon K Maner of Florida State University.
Research conducted two researchers is the world’s first study showing the influence of the woman’s fertile period to produce a biological response in men. “The smell of women in fertile period more attractive to men,” he said.
In two experiments, respondents were asked to smell T-shirt men used by women for three days or during their fertile period. The respondents were also asked to smell the fresh shirt. Later, the men saliva samples taken to measure the difference in testosterone levels, before and after kissing T-shirt.
Results from these two experiments shows, the respondents not only chose the T-shirt has a distinctive smell, but their testosterone levels are also higher after these socks smell.
The results of this study indicate that sex appeal (sex appeal) not only come from the physical one. There is “something” is excluded from the smell of the women who are in fertility. This odor can have the effect of sexual temptation or as a signal for fertilization.
Experts say, the results of this study reinforces the theory of female behavior in the most attractive males performed by stimulating the sense of smell.
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Pretty Women "Anger More Easily"?





Attractive women have higher expectations, the research suggested
Attractive women may have the competitive edge by letting their temper flare more, research suggests.
Researchers found women who rated themselves as pretty displayed a war-like streak when fighting battles to get their own way.
The University of California interviewed 156 female students to gauge their temperament and how they handled conflict.
The findings appear in Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences.
In the study, the women who believed they were good looking were more likely to respond angrily in disputes than those who rated themselves as less attractive.
Attractive women also had higher expectations of what they deserved.
Survival of the fittest
These were strategies that appeared to work because the same women were better at resolving situations in their favour.
When the researchers, led by Dr Aaron Sell, scrutinised the findings further, they found how attractive other people rated the women also tallied.
And so did hair colour - with blondes rated as more attractive than brunettes and redheads, as reported in an earlier version of this story.
However, Dr Sell insisted to the BBC that this link was less strong and his research had not set out to test this.
The researchers believe the findings have an evolutionary basis, ensuring that the "fittest" people mate and have offspring.
In men, they found a similar link but with physical strength rather than attractiveness per se.
Consultant psychologist Ingrid Collins, of The London Medical Centre, said the latest findings were interesting but should be interpreted with caution.
"This is a small study on a very limited sample group so it is not possible to generalise."
If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life, never make a pretty woman your wife...
Go for my personal point of view, get an ugly girl to marry you
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10 Best for slim

It's time for you now to make a breakthrough in weight-loss program. The breakthrough that is eating the right foods so that the weight-loss program can be achieved without the need to torture yourself.
Some research says, eating certain foods will increase the burning of calories in your body, but also reduces food addiction.
Here are 10 types of foods that can help you lose weight.
1. Beef: Contrary to popular perception, eating beef steak was able to reduce your weight. Research published The American Journal of Clinical Nutrition says, the woman in his diet includes red meat recorded more weight than those who ate the same amount of calories with a little beef. Protein content in the steak, the researchers say, can maintain the muscle during a weight-loss program.
2. Eggs: Eggs are not going to damage your heart, but it helps you slimmer several ainci. Research experts at Louisiana State University Baton Rouge show, women who undergo low-calorie diet and ate eggs, bread and jelly each morning lost weight two times more than those who breakfast bagel with the same amount of calories but no eggs. According to the researchers, eggs make full, so you eat less.
3. Oats: Oatmeal ranked top in terms of filling in between other foods. No sperti most carbohydrates, oats-even though that type of instant-be digested slowly. Thus, these foods little effect on blood sugar.
4. Lentils: Lentils are the best foods to streamline the stomach. "They're high in protein and soluble fiber, two nutrients that can stabilize blood sugar levels," said Tanya Zuckerbrot, RD, author of The F-Factor Diet (Putnam Adult.) Eating lentils can prevent the insulin spike that makes your body to form fat, especially in the stomach area. "
5. Apples: An apple a day can prevent weight gain, according to research by scientists at Penn State University. Those who ate an apple before eating pasta listed eat fewer calories than those who ate other snacks. Apples have a high fiber -4 to 5 grams, which makes a full stomach. Remarkably again, antioxidants in apples may prevent metabolic syndrome, characterized by accumulation of fat in the abdominal circumference
6. Chili: Chili may increase the metabolism. Substances contained in chili peppers called capsaicin has a thermogenic effect, which makes the body burn extra calories during 20 minutes after eating chili. In addition, you no longer can eat meals in a flash. Eat slowly make your brain that your stomach to record full. So you will not eat excessively.
7. Yogurt: Perpetrators diet called plain yogurt as the perfect food. With a combination of carbohydrates, proteins and fats, yogurt can suppress hunger by keeping blood sugar levels remain stable. Study the experts at the University of Tennessee, said they are low-calorie diet by adding fat yogurt decreased the total 61 percent larger and 81 percent abdominal fat than those who diet without the yogurt.
8. Parmesan: Women who drink whole milk or eat cheese every day tend to be not too experienced weight gain, according to a study published the American Journal of Clinical Nutrition. -Lowfat dairy fans just do not get the same benefits. Whole milk products have terkonjugasi linoleic acid, which can help your body burn fat.
9. Avocado: Do not let the fat content in an avocado (29 grams) makes you worry. That's what makes this food into the best weight-lowering. Content of monounsaturated fat (monounsaturated) contained in them can increase satiety.
10. Olive oil: Like avocados, olive oil has a fat content that increases satiety, and stop the appetite. Research also shows olive oil as a potent anti-inflammatory.
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Listen to Your Love With Your Ears Closed, and You Will Finally Hear What They Are Saying





I have learned many things in my life. Most of what I learned was through trial and error. Mainly through error is when I grew the most. I believe the relationships I had in the past were to prepare me and make me ready to be the right partner for the one I was to be with. While I wish I had found her many years before, I obviously was not ready until the moment she came into my life. One of the lessons I had to learn was how to listen to my partner and really hear what she was saying. Sometimes I have to listen with my ears, and sometimes I have to listen with my heart, and feel what she is saying or doing.
Since the moment we started dating, I paid close attention to everything I could. I remained as open as any man could be so I would not miss an opportunity to know and understand my baby. I wanted to be as close as I could to her, and I wanted to know who she really was. I wanted to be able to understand what she was feeling and what she liked and disliked. By paying attention to her, I was able to get a decent understanding of how she displays certain feelings. I am in no way an expert at knowing exactly what she is feeling at any given time. I am sure I miss a lot of the signals that come out, but when I really listen to her, I almost feel in tune with her. It is at this moment I can almost feel what she is feeling and can then make my own decision on how to react or not react.
Knowing when to do something is another thing that I have had to learn the hard way. I am a natural problem solver. My career is based upon solving complex issues, and one of my hobbies is fixing things and remodeling. So it is a subconscious thing that I will want to fix something. If my sweetheart is in a bad mood, I will feel this, and will want to try to do something to get her in a good mood. While this is completely out of love and care, it is not always what she may be wanting. Sometimes we just want to vent our issues to someone who will just listen. We don’t necessarily want anyone to step in and solve anything; we just want to let things out. If we are in tune with our partners, we can hear what they need by listening with our heart and soul instead of our ears. Our ears may deceive us by turning on our internal want to change what is bothering our sweetheart. But if we turn our ears off, and truly hear our partner, we can begin to understand what they are feeling, needing, and missing if anything.
I have to say that being able to be so close to my sweetheart is such a wonder feeling. Knowing when to hold her close, walk away, listen, and when to hear brings us closer and closer every day. She must have also learned these things too, as she seems to be in tune with me. Not that I may be in an off mood, but she knows immediately when I need to sip my coffee without talking, or when I need her to come up and give me some kisses and sit as close as she can to me. OK, maybe I will always smile and want her to kiss me and hold me close, but the point is she seems to know this. Maybe you can start to listen with your ears closed too, and begin to truly hear what your love is saying. When you begin to hear each other, your relationship will go to new levels and will be more rewarding than you ever imagined.
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